I just needed to post this...........
"I WANT TO BE A MOMMY!"
Me & My "Kai Chai"
I have many friends who are at my age or older already is married and have kids. Some of their marriage turn out well and some just didnt. But I have to say, I think its the most magical thing when you have your baby in your arms and at that moment on nothing else matter except thinking ways to not make your little one suffer. Yes some might say early marriage & short gun marriage just wont work and people think thats a bad thing if it happens in one life. But I believe things happen for a reason, our life is plan by god and I know for sure there are reason as to why things happen in one's life.
In this case, maybe it happen out of love or maybe to mature someone or just maybe plain sillyness and mistake but whatever it is I dont think young marriage or short gun marriage should be label as a bad thing, something to be ashame of or something that is just sooo awful that one cannot go on in life. Yes maybe life would have to be difficult and life have to change from there on but that doesnt mean life doesnt have to go on. Life still have to go on and be proud of what has happen. That baby came out for a reason and it is you that is gonna shelter it, love it, care it and protect it from all your will and might.
I used to think that situation like this is the end of your life and families will discard you and it used to be such a evil bad thing. But now, Im surrounded with peoples that I love and they have gone through this path out of many reasons and now I realise and learn that it is not a bad thing and families should not discard their kids if it was to happen. Instead unity of the family and the strongness of the family that makes things much easier and a loving place for the baby to live in. Not by discarting them and make as if the baby is evil.......The baby didnt ask to be born in this world.
Instead be proud of it and enjoy every moment of it. Yes it is not as easy as Im stating it right now but thats all you can ever do. Just be proud of it and strive for the better for you and for the baby. Dont be ashame or shattered by the fact that your dreams just stops there, It doesnt and it doesnt need to be the way it is now if you dont wat it to be. Look at celebrities like jamie lynn spears, because of the family love and support, she is happy and living every moment of it with her baby. No one outcase her at that moment instead they stood by her during those hard times that makes it easy to accept.
I think being a mummy is such a wonderful thing in life and no one should feel ashame to be so even it happen to you at a young age or at an old age. EMBRACE IT, LIVE IT
All in all I want to shout out to all the women in the world, those who have married at such a young age and have kids at a young age and to those who are single mums :
"Be proud of what has happen to you and dont be sorry for the things thats happen, You are strong and full of faith and nothing should stop you from pursuing your dreams. Your baby is your saviour and your meaning in life. Make the most of your life and your baby life because you only live life once"
"I WANT TO BE A MOMMY!"
Me & My "Kai Chai"I have many friends who are at my age or older already is married and have kids. Some of their marriage turn out well and some just didnt. But I have to say, I think its the most magical thing when you have your baby in your arms and at that moment on nothing else matter except thinking ways to not make your little one suffer. Yes some might say early marriage & short gun marriage just wont work and people think thats a bad thing if it happens in one life. But I believe things happen for a reason, our life is plan by god and I know for sure there are reason as to why things happen in one's life.
In this case, maybe it happen out of love or maybe to mature someone or just maybe plain sillyness and mistake but whatever it is I dont think young marriage or short gun marriage should be label as a bad thing, something to be ashame of or something that is just sooo awful that one cannot go on in life. Yes maybe life would have to be difficult and life have to change from there on but that doesnt mean life doesnt have to go on. Life still have to go on and be proud of what has happen. That baby came out for a reason and it is you that is gonna shelter it, love it, care it and protect it from all your will and might.
I used to think that situation like this is the end of your life and families will discard you and it used to be such a evil bad thing. But now, Im surrounded with peoples that I love and they have gone through this path out of many reasons and now I realise and learn that it is not a bad thing and families should not discard their kids if it was to happen. Instead unity of the family and the strongness of the family that makes things much easier and a loving place for the baby to live in. Not by discarting them and make as if the baby is evil.......The baby didnt ask to be born in this world.
Instead be proud of it and enjoy every moment of it. Yes it is not as easy as Im stating it right now but thats all you can ever do. Just be proud of it and strive for the better for you and for the baby. Dont be ashame or shattered by the fact that your dreams just stops there, It doesnt and it doesnt need to be the way it is now if you dont wat it to be. Look at celebrities like jamie lynn spears, because of the family love and support, she is happy and living every moment of it with her baby. No one outcase her at that moment instead they stood by her during those hard times that makes it easy to accept.
I think being a mummy is such a wonderful thing in life and no one should feel ashame to be so even it happen to you at a young age or at an old age. EMBRACE IT, LIVE IT
All in all I want to shout out to all the women in the world, those who have married at such a young age and have kids at a young age and to those who are single mums :
"Be proud of what has happen to you and dont be sorry for the things thats happen, You are strong and full of faith and nothing should stop you from pursuing your dreams. Your baby is your saviour and your meaning in life. Make the most of your life and your baby life because you only live life once"
1 comment:
Hey darling.. being a mom is the greatest thing in life, until they start walking and talking.hmmmpphh..and of cos, being a mom is fantastic when there is enough finance and family support. Or else it wouldnt be easy at all. Trust me. And I want to have another baby in future. A daughter!! hahaha.. i wish.
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